When Being Barren Empties Your Soul #rainbowbabies #infertility #IVF #abortion

  I love reader's! They take chances when reading the work of authors. This isa huge deal because words have the power to change lives ans ways of thinking. "Just finished reading "Ribbons & Belle! Wonderful story! You covered a lot of fertility issues! So glad I was brave enough to read it!

Many women have to face the fact they may never have children. I don't know that feeling, but I do know the emptiness and guilt of having one and it leaving not many hours,  later. These emotions are painful and things  I wish no woman had to go through.

 I read an article here, the other day that expressed and offered support. Join their Facebook or visit their website Still Standing Magazine

 

Other women, live with the undeniable feeling, their wanted child is standing at Heavens door, just waiting to be born. Hand picked by their siblings in heaven. Their "rainbow," baby. This is the term used for the first child who is born and survives after (a) miscarriages, the heartbreak of a child being born asleep, or the trauma of a child dying from illness or accident. 

This rainbow baby is the long awaited filler of the soul. Not  a replacement, but a loved, long awaited blessing to the heart of the family. Here, you can find support groups to help you through the wait.

 



As I traveled the net I came across many groups that offer services and support. I'm glad to have learned of these sites. In the U.K. They have The Saying Goodbye Services are the first national set of remembrance services for people who have lost a child at any stage of pregnancy, at birth or in infancy, whether the loss be recent or 80-years ago.

In Ribbons & Belle, Anabelle Lee contemplates her actions in trying to achieve her dreams of having a child of her own. It's a beautiful story, receiving pretty good reviews.  Take a peek into a very hard scene.

Gorgeous, dedicated fertility counselor Tyson Ribbons, has admired and loved embryologist, Anabelle “Belle” Lee for along time. When she comes in for counseling he fights everything within him not to deter her from her plans.
Doesn’t stop his heart from wishing it could be him fulfilling her desire.

Anabelle Lee, mourning her inability to have a child of her own-suffered through two miscarriages, a heartbreaking late-term abortion, and a soul crushing divorce. As an embryologist, she has protected the potential life of many frozen specimens, and lived envious of the women choosing InVitro fertilization as their form of reproduction.
After a bit of encouragement from her best friend, and counseling from the very perfect Dr. Ribbons, Anabelle takes steps to fulfill her desire to become a mother.
Problem is, the announcement brings more of a shock than a gift. Purchase here